“I can be changed by what happens to me; but I refuse to be reduced by it.”- “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”
I love the first quote and in my attempt to kick grief's ass, I will live by those words. I, myself am sick of the person that I have become and the person that I feel I am becoming, so to stop the process I am throwing in the towel at grief, so to speak. And by that I mean, I am letting grief *think* that it won, but it really didn't ~ I won because I'm not letting it get the best of me. I can't. I won't.
So grief, you and I have become well acquainted over these past few years and we became really close these past few months, but it's time I leave you. This is not a good relationship ~ it's not you, it's me. It's time that we both move on with our lives; you have to let me spread my wings.
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"It's not you it's me"
THAT's Cass - That's the glimmer of you that's been hiding & that girl is still in there ... she just needed time to hide and heal.
((HUGS))
Now that's power. You go girl. I know you can do it.
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